Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Will he call me?

Ok, so we only started going out yesterday. He has liked me for some time, but he was waiting for the annual school carnation sale so he could give me one and ask me out. We went to my youth group last night, and this high school guy got up on the stage and started talking about Valentine's day 'don'ts.' One of them was don't ever forget about Valentine's day. He talked said that you should call the girl and wish her a happy Valentine's day. But since we only started going out yesterday, do you think he will? I would like it if he called me since I really like him and my friends have reported that he was a whole lot happier yesterday than he has ever been. Do you think he will?

Will he call me?
yeah!!!!
Reply:I bet he does
Reply:If he like's you yes.



If he does'nt, Dont beat urself up about it.

Give him time.
Reply:hes not goin to forget hes just scared
Reply:Awww, it depends on the person if he want to call you. But don't worry, if he did not call you it doesn't mean he don't like you, right? And don't expect too much, for sometimes if we expect too much it ends up bad.



I wish he will call you.

Happy Valentines Day!
Reply:i think he will...he wont stay alone on Valentine day...
Reply:Just call him. if not for anything, it'll make you feel better.
Reply:No idea if he will, but if you like him you can call or message him. Hey it's 2008 so women are allowed to be forward thinkers. You want him you take the reigns and steer him in your direction.
Reply:um give the relationship some time. I don't think that if he doesn't call you it means he doesn't care or doesn't want to be in this relationship. I think you also have to think about a lot of guys at your age are shy and don't know how to necessarily talk to girls without feeling very uncomfortable.

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Why am I gaining weight?

I am very confused right now. For about 3 years, my weight had been steady at between 106-110 lbs. (I am 5'4). I had played soccer for 18 years, so I have always been pretty athletic. I stopped playing 2 years ago, and had been pretty inactive until last summer - I started using an elliptical machine for about a half hour 2-3 days a week. Everything was fine until I started to gradually gain weight, reaching about 113 lbs. by January and 117 by March. Six weeks ago I intensified my workouts, and am now working out pretty intensely. I strength train (full body, free weights, low weights with 12 reps and 3 sets) 2-3 days a week, play sand volleyball with friends 1-2 times a week, and run about 10-13 miles a week: I jog 2 miles on strength training days, do interval training 2 days a week (for 30 minutes: Jog 2 min., sprint 30 sec.) and take a long run (4-6 miles) one day a week. I am gradually gaining weight, and I don't know why! My clothes are tighter, I have gone up a pant size and a shirt size. I tracked my food intake with a food diary for about a week, and on average I take in about 1100-1200 calories a day. I eat very healthily: typical breakfast is either instant oatmeal with fruit or a homemade smoothie made with 1 cup fruit, 1 cup light soy milk, ice, and a packet of No Sugar Carnation instant breakfast. Lunch is a salad with protein, I eat a snack when I get home (before working out), which is usually a high fiber or high protein breakfast bar at about 150 calories. Dinneris typically grilled chicken or pork with steamed veggies and some type of whole grain, or steel cut oatmeal with fruit and nonfat yogurt. Am I working out too much or not eating enough? I'm scared to add more food because I fear gaining even MORE weight!

Why am I gaining weight?
Educating yourself about how carbs vs protein effects your body is the first place to start. If you did have a real dietitian come up with a meal plan for each day, how much would that cost? Hundreds of dollars. The internet has made it so easy to find information these days I finally came upon a site with relative tips.


Does he like me, or am I just his back-up girl?

I want to know if he likes me back… here are some things that makes me wonder…

1. Asked me to the dance (slow dance)

2. Grinded with me in the dance

3. Flirts with me in classes and comes and talks to me

4. But some days he doesn’t talk to me...well I hardly see him, I have no classes with him… so the only time I see him is in one class…we talk and laugh, but certain days we don’t.

5. For Valentine’s day we have this thing where you can send carnations and he was gone for 2 days for that week, and so he didn’t really have time to send a carnation, and I sent him one since we were going to the dance together, and since he didn’t get me one he felt so bad and was like so close to crying and felt horrible that he didn’t get me one

6. When we were slow dancing his friends were saying awww sweet

7. Also when we were slow dancing his friend was saying all this stuff to him like remember you said you couldn’t wait for this day and all this stuff and martin (the guy that I like’s name) he blushed and said to my friend to get him away from us

8. But the only thing is that my friend asked him what he thought of me, and he said he doesn’t want a girlfriend right now, and that he didn’t like me THAT much… and one of his best friends told me he like another girl… and he said that he wasn’t lying and looked very serious, but then my friend asked him if that was true and he said no way! But then just today I talked to another one of his friends, and he said that the boy doesn’t like anyone… what is going on, what should I do?! Should I just go ahead and ask him out… and there is another dance coming up, should I ask him to that?? I am confused and getting a bit sad…I want to know who he likes, and I am the SHY type…so it’s hard for me to just go up there and ask him…

I just really want to know if he likes me, I’m not sure if he is shy or not, but I really like him and I really want to know if he likes me…

P.S. were 13, and we aren’t too young, you can fall in love at any age and all of his friends have had girlfriends this year, but him. He has had 2 girlfriends so far, and they are both my friends too, and he didn’t have a bad time with them or anything.

Does he like me, or am I just his back-up girl?
1. That's a great start to a relationship.



2. Grinding is another good sign. (and fun)



3. Well everyone flirts but sometimes it is more than just "flirting."



4. You don't need any classes together to be able to talk to him, talk to him at lunch or something.



5. When you get a guy to the point where he is almost crying, you know you have him lassoed. It's also good that he felt horrible for not getting you one.



6. His friends know if he likes you or not. If they say things like that, then you know he likes you.



7. Self-explanatory, he likes you.



8. Sometimes guys know when someone asks you something like that, that they are coming from you. No guy likes to tell who his crush is to his crushes best friend, it's a dead giveaway. Boy's friends lie a lot.



I don't think you should ask him out, but definitely ask him to the dance. Wait until he asks you out. I had girlfriends when I was 11 so 13 isn't too young. Good Luck, and hope it helps. ;)
Reply:He has had 2 g/friends already and now you want to be the 3rd one for him? Hm... no answer.
Reply:WOW ....

sorry for your troubles

i have also been there ....

ask him to the dance .... as friends and then ask him out there towards the ending of the dance ....

i did it once and it worked out, honestly not perfect, but alright.

we stayed friends for a while then went out.

also give him the option of staying friends or not because if he truly likes you, your gesture will stand out.

good luck ....

~~!!!!~~~!!~~~~ash
Reply:Sounds like he's not interested now but DO NOT give up. He'll come around. I'm sure. Keep it normal and flirt. Flirt like there's not tomorrow hun. Toodles!



-Ali
Reply:If you really want to know who he likes or if he likes you or not, just send him a note if your really shy and don't want to ask him yourself. Don't go around asking people because most of the time they wont tell you the truth. It sounds like he likes you to me :), but you never know.
Reply:i think he likes u but i think that u should deffenetivly not ask him out i mean that will completly scare him away. so just wait i mean i no its realy hard but u no some of the best relationships start off when they r just friends and r getting 2 no each other so let him get to no u. but dont ask him out wait flirt but let him hav the guts to ask


Could this diet work?

I'm trying to cut calories and exercise so I can lose some fat on my body. I get so hungry throughout the day and I found Carnation Instant Breakfast. The powder itself has 5 grams of protein and my 2% milk has I think 8 or 9 grams of protein. I planned on drinking it for breakfast, and with lunch..but at lunch I was going to have a small salad, and then eat a regular dinner...but smaller portions. The carnation Instant breakfast has 220 calories with the milk. I also plan on doing cardio 3-4 times a week for 45 minutes and doing pilates 3 times a week for 20 minutes.

Could this diet work?
It sounds like it's a really good plan...you're on the right track, I don't know if I'd do it with lunch, because it has a lot of calories, but that's just me, maybe do water or something instead, that way you can use that 220 cals for like a hundred cal pack of crackers or something...but it does sound good! Good luck!! :) I'm trying the same low calorie thing...my sister lost like 30 pounds in 3 months just by cutting calories and doing cardio...so it must work!
Reply:Did you consider shifting calories instead of reducing them? If you cut calories, you will definitely be starving. However, you could shift the calorie intake to different times during the day.



Your metabolism burns calories based on what it is used to see you eat. So, if you eat less calories, it will burn less. However, by shifting calories, you basically "confuse" your metabolism and it will burn more calories.



This is called calorie shifting. For more details on this diet, go to http://www.UltraSimpleFatLoss.com



Good Luck!

René
Reply:not without being tired, where are the carbs?

Carnation Instant Breakfast doesn't have everything you need at all.

I will have to see what the sugar and chemical content of this product is, reasearch, gotta love it!



Breakfast Ideas:

oatmeal, cereal, toast, fruit



Lunch/Dinner Ideas:

sandwich, wraps, rice, pasta, tofu, stir fry



Snack Ideas:

salad, nuts, sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds, muffins,



Hope this helps!
Reply:Carnation is good to have at breakfast...but don't do the mistake of dieting. Dieting and programs do not work...unless you use it as a crutch the rest of you life. All you have to do is eat right and work out. You are already to do cardio 3 days a week...include a small amount of weight training...that will burn even more calories and fat than cardio. Eat well proportioned meals....not just a small salad and a meal replacement. I wouldn't even do the carnation every day...just whenever you don't have time to get food. Watch calories...eat right....exercise....and it'll go off and stay off...



Let me know if you have any questions...Good luck!
Reply:Sounds like you might end up eating too little.

You need to make sure you incorporate some fruit and nuts and plenty of veggies and lean protein.

Breakfast is a fuel meal so you may want to add in a granola bar with the CIB and an apple.



Your body needs at least 1200 calories per day. So make sure the foods you eat are healthy and no less than 1200.



Good luck!
Reply:thats alot of calories for one meal. try alive protien vitamin which is soy based. its a powder that you mix with milk, yogurt, and fruit to make a smoothie. It doesnt taste that bad but it helps alot in losing weight and making sure your body has the vitamins it needs.
Reply:Not enough food. You need much more protein.

Carnation Instant breakfast has about 30 grams of sugar, too. In fact, it's basically sugar water because the main ingredients are: High Fructose Corn Syrup, Maltodextrin, Sucrose (all sugars)
Reply:sounds fun but make sure you drink lots of water in betweens and you may snack on lowfat yoghurt and raw nuts to add calcium to your body to safeguard muscles and burn off fat faster..
Reply:fantastic...! It will work surely !
Reply:yea it would,,,,gud luk!!


What does this mean???????????????????????

Ok so my Uncle is dying with cancer ok and I'm having these images that are all gray except one its a single one and its solid black and they keep telling me hes going to die in less than 2 weeks and we found out today his organs are failing and blood pressure is dropping drastically its 70 over 30 hes going quickly and I didn't know this but everytime I say in my head hes not dying I get a swift pain until I admit he is but they have no feet just arms and heads they have spiked up hair except for that black one it has long flowing hair,am I seeing death like I believe?????? They are saying hes got a week! Help me I know IM NOT crazy! Could death%26amp;god be communicating with me.......or could the spirits.......or am I a medium? I know my mom has these carnation smellings before someone we know dies ok but she on last fri smelled a carnation ok I've never had this happen to me ever could I be a medium and could we both be????????????

What does this mean???????????????????????
Don't panic, it's probably a premonition. It's quite common. This happens to me quite a lot. It doesn't necessarily mean that you are a medium. The mind is very complex and sometimes your subconscience knows things that your conscience mind can only find out in dreams because that is when your mind is most open and when your subconscience and your conscience mind can communicate with eachother. It is your mind's way of telling you that you don't have much time with your uncle. If I were you, I would take it seriously and try and spend as much time with him as possible.
Reply:oh wow i didnt know he was dying i hope the docs were lying about him having a week to live. i think god is trying to give you a message about your uncle. the only thing you can do is pray pray pray!!!
Reply:It's just a dream. People have them. You're fine. Everyone dies. Dreams of death are common. Very few people can claim to be "mediums" and I don't think you're one of them. don't worry about it.
Reply:i think its a premonition. do you ever listen to coast to coast on the radio? if not go to their web site. they often have segments about dreams and spirits and what not. i'm sorry about your uncle.
Reply:It sounds like you can communicate with the departed. Lucky you! Don't worry, you aren't crazy. Just remember that when your uncle dies, he's not really gone, you just can't see him. ^-^
Reply:it's all in your head. if you had predicted he was going to die then later found out he was dying, then you'd have more credibility.
Reply:Start praying to God and ask him to make these spirits leave you. These are bad spirits trying to taunt you. They might get mad if you start praying but just keep on doing it.
Reply:ahhhhhhhhhhh good thing thats not me

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Does he like me? Do you think he will make a move soon?

I want to know if he likes me back… here are some things that makes me wonder…

1. Asked me to the dance (slow dance)

2. Grinded with me in the dance

3. Flirts with me in classes and comes and talks to me

4. But some days he doesn’t talk to me...well I hardly see him, I have no classes with him… so the only time I see him is in one class…we talk and laugh, but certain days we don’t.

5. For Valentine’s day we have this thing where you can send carnations and he was gone for 2 days for that week, and so he didn’t really have time to send a carnation, and I sent him one since we were going to the dance together, and since he didn’t get me one he felt so bad and was like so close to crying and felt horrible that he didn’t get me one

6. When we were slow dancing his friends were saying awww sweet

7. Also when we were slow dancing his friend was saying all this stuff to him like remember you said you couldn’t wait for this day and all this stuff and martin (the guy that I like’s name) he blushed and said to my friend to get him away from us

8. But the only thing is that my friend asked him what he thought of me, and he said he doesn’t want a girlfriend right now, and that he didn’t like me THAT much… and one of his best friends told me he like another girl… and he said that he wasn’t lying and looked very serious, but then my friend asked him if that was true and he said no way! But then just today I talked to another one of his friends, and he said that the boy doesn’t like anyone… what is going on, what should I do?! Should I just go ahead and ask him out… and there is another dance coming up, should I ask him to that?? I am confused and getting a bit sad…I want to know who he likes, and I am the SHY type…so it’s hard for me to just go up there and ask him…

I just really want to know if he likes me, I’m not sure if he is shy or not, but I really like him and I really want to know if he likes me…

P.S. were 13, and we aren’t too young, you can fall in love at any age and all of his friends have had girlfriends this year, but him. He has had 2 girlfriends so far, and they are both my friends too, and he didn’t have a bad time with them or anything, his first was in 5th grade, and then his 2nd was in 6th grade, and now we are in 7th and he hasn’t had one yet…

Does he like me? Do you think he will make a move soon?
I think that he likes you, but might be embarrassed to say so. Maybe he really isn't interested in getting a girlfriend right now, and that's why.

I'll tell you this: from what I've heard, I seriously doubt he likes another girl. I think he is interested in you, but doesn't know what you think of him or what he should say to you to ask you out. Or maybe he really doesn't want a g/f right now. Who knows.

Since you both seemed to have had a really good time together at the last dance, you should ask him out again to this one. And don't be as shy around him!! Do you even realize how many people want to be in your position right now?? I'm in the 7th grade too, I like this one guy soooo much but I'm too shy to even look at him! We're not friends at all, I wish we had slowed danced together! You're so lucky so don't miss your chances!! ????
Reply:Yessssssssssssssssss!!! If he has got a heart and eyes to see your love for him!


Does he like me back????

I want to know if he likes me back… here are some things that makes me wonder…

1. Asked me to the dance (slow dance)

2. Grinded with me in the dance

3. Flirts with me in classes and comes and talks to me, one time he sat by me instead of one of his friends

4. But some days he doesn’t talk to me...well I hardly see him, I have no classes with him… so the only time I see him is in one class…we talk and laugh, but certain days we don’t.

5. For Valentine’s day we have this thing where you can send carnations and he was gone for 2 days for that week, and so he didn’t really have time to send a carnation, and I sent him one since we were going to the dance together, and since he didn’t get me one he felt so bad and was like so close to crying and felt horrible that he didn’t get me one

6. When we were slow dancing his friends were saying awww sweet

7. Also when we were slow dancing his friend was saying all this stuff to him like remember you said you couldn’t wait for this day and all this stuff and martin (the guy that I like’s name) he blushed and said to my friend to get him away from us

8. But the only thing is that my friend asked him what he thought of me, and he said he doesn’t want a girlfriend right now, and that he didn’t like me THAT much…

I just really want to know if he likes me, I’m not sure if he is shy or not, but I really like him and I really want to know if he likes me…

P.S. were 13, and we aren’t too young, you can fall in love at any age and all of his friends have had girlfriends this year, but him.

Does he like me back????
Yes he does.I think that 13 is just the right age to start to have a bf.I had one wen I was your age and kept him for 5 yrs.
Reply:You are kind of young- but I think he does like you, so stay his friend and stay available, so that when he does come around, he won't have to worry about another guy. :)