Question About a Gift I Bought...?

Ok so I went to school with this girl and have known her/had a crush on her for 3-4 years now. She was taken at the time and AFAIK, still is. She has been running to me since November of last year talking about what a jerk her b/f is and all. She already knows I like her and she seems to be into me, but see her parents really like her b/f and are the strict/old-fashioned type. Anyways, I got advice from 2 female friends of mine about what if anything I should get for her for V-Day. I bought her a mixed carnation bouquet.

It says colors vary by season so I would assume reds/whites/pinks. The picture had yellow, white, pink, and orange. Was this a good idea or?

Question About a Gift I Bought...?
NO! do not get her flowers. if you do, DO NOT get her pink, red or white. but then again, don't get her flowers at all.

don't get her anything like that.
Reply:First of all,you bought flowers for someone else's girlfriend,who seems to come to you with the problems she's having with her boyfriend. Could it be,the only reason she comes to you,is because she knows you will listen? You should'nt give her the flowers,because she is not your girlfriend (yet),and it is going to make her boyfriend mad. Because you've already recieved them,give them to your mom or sister,and hope that this girl is not expecting a Valentine's Day gift from you. (PS) Don't get involved with the situation between her and her boyfriend. Let them work things out on their own.
Reply:i think that it was a very good idea and a very sweet one at that.
Reply:Probably not. It's too ambigious. Be assertive. How's the expression go? ..."Sh*t or get off the pot," I think it is. Anyway, that will probably be seen as just a friendly gesture. Get her a dozen red roses, with a card that says something like "I've waited for a long time to give you these. I hope things work out so that I buy you flowers a lot more often." She will either break up with the jerk and go out with you (in due time, be patient), or tell you she's not interested. Either way, you'll know. And knowing is half the battle.
Reply:noo
Reply:Awe, That is so sweet and your friend will love the heart felt gift.
Reply:Now what were your friends thinking? Carnations are funeral flowers.. You should have bought her daises or tulips or something else... Sorry that is my advice take it or leave it
Reply:In my opinion, it was a good idea as long as:



1) It's not my girlfriend

2) Her boyfriend is not a psycho 300 lbs lineman



The parents thing is tough, because I've found that one marries into a family and not just the spouse. It's a difficult situation because she's technically "going out" with someone, but if you can win the favor of the parents then you're in :-)



Good luck! Write her a note about how you feel!
Reply:That was very sweet of you. I'm sure she will appreciate it. Girls love surprises.