What do I do about this girl? Please help!?

Ok, there's this really mean girl (I'm in school) and she keeps spreading rumors that I like this one guy. He then said that I wrote him a Valentine's card and put kisses and hugs on it. I don't want to talk to my teacher about it because she hates me. Also she started a rumor that I sent a carnation to this one guy when I didn't. Can anyone please give me some good advice on what to do to get her to stop being mean to me. Please don't say anything that would get me in trouble with my teacher.

What do I do about this girl? Please help!?
Hey packer fan so am i!!!! but really all you can do is let it go... you want to know why??? because people have to make the choice and to believe me or them... and I remember have that problem and I ingore it.. and if people come to me and said is that true and I would say no... and they have the choice... They can do what ever they want to do to make me look bad and I am not going to do anything about it... and guess what more and more people like wow he very nice and never talk about other two who very nasty about talking crap about that guy... ummm... so, think postive smiling...
Reply:you need to go to someone above your teacher to complain about it. they'll probably do something menial to her which might not stop her from bothering you. unfortunately this if life. and we all go through things like this. what you need to do it grow up and be more mature than her. what do you do? ignore her. the more you ignore her. the more bored she'll be and guess what? she'll look a crazy loon spreading rumours that don't even get to you. dont' worry she'll stop someday
Reply:Just tell them that you didn't.
Reply:The best thing to do is to be nice to this girl, and nicely tell her that her rumors are offending you and aren't funny. if she doesn't stop, go and tell an adult that you trust, like your principal or another teacher.
Reply:Just ignore her, she'll grow up someday.
Reply:well i hate those type of girlz and i kno wats going on. tht girl has no life if she just wants to mess up yours. Ignore the rumors and if someone says "you sent a flower to (w/e tht guys name is)" dont flip out. just say thts a rumor and its been started by someone who has nothing better to do but start rumors be cool about it
Reply:Allot of times people when are young they are trying to get a rise out of you. Don't let her. Or try being nice to her and then when she continues to be mean to you she will feel guilty and maybe someday stop. Sometimes when people are young or even older people are just plain heartless and the only way they can be stopped is to fight fire with fire. So if all the good happy stuff doesn't work then do the same to her. Or threaten to beat her up or something. Sometimes that is the only way. Good luck!
Reply:go to the principles office and tell on her like you mean it
Reply:Mean people will always be mean there is generaly no helping them. If she spreads rumors then ignore them, by letting them get to you you only encourage and reward their efforts. If you don't react they will beome disinterested. However you can also simply choose to beat them down. For instance I presume that the rumor about the carnation was supposed to demonstrate that you like this guys as well. Make a subtle note sometime preferably right to her that carnations most often represent misfortune and grief in western cultures and that they would be a really bad choice to send to a guy you liked(don't even metion the rumor).


On another thought this could be a manifestation of her competativeness maby you have something she doesn't. Maybe she likes a guy who's totally into you or something. Once you ind the cause the sollution is never far behind.
Reply:Be the bigger person and ignore her. Don't let her get to you. If that doesn't work, then call her out on her sh!t. She is being immature and is targeting you bc for some reason she is threatened by you. So call her out on being a jerk and a liar. Or you could fight fire with fire and try to spread rumors about her, but that is only as a last resort. I think first just try to be the bigger person adn ignore it or talk to her about it.
Reply:ok tell her dont hate me cause I am beautiful hate me cause u aint meand say i dont care if u dont like me everyone that matters already approves and last but not least say just when you thought you were the center of attention then I showed up and dont let her get to you dont spread rumors back cause darling it called carma what gose around comes back around
Reply:you should really go to your teacher and also approach this girl who is bothering you. see if u can do a " peer mediation" with the girl so u can talk out your problems.
Reply:beat them at their own game, you could play into it cuz all they want is a reaction out of you they want to bother you so u could act like it doesnt bother you and do the exact opposite of what they are expecting you to do. if this is a different guy that they are saying u sent the carnation to, get him to help you and u guys could pretend to be a couple or something. or you could go to the principal or tell your parents
Reply:Talk to your parents, let them know what is happening and ask them to talk to the administration. Nothing wrong with kicking this in the budd before it balloons into something bigger and uglier.
Reply:just say u don't and go to another teacher or u can just say u don't and ignore i know that sounds really lame but it works omg that sounds lame too
Reply:Stop routing for the Packers...that's why she hates you!!!
Reply:I doubt your teacher hates you - I know a lot of teachers, and while they may get exasperated with certain students, they are willing to help them out if there is a real problem. Talk to your teacher (or principal or dean or school counselor, they really are not so scary, and they do want to help you if you'll let them). Tell them the girl is spreading rumors about you, and actually forging your name on things. They will be able to mediate between you and the mean girl and find out why she is being so mean and convince her to stop.


Meanwhile, don't stoop to her level by doing anything mean or petty. Just let people know that she is making up stories about you, and none of them are true. If they know how mean she is, they will believe you over her.
Reply:why dont you become friends with this unwanted guy. he might not be the best looking but i bet he is nice! become his friend ands rub it in her face like you dont care! because after your school years you wont even know her
Reply:Kill her with kindness. Tell her what a great friend she is. Invite her to your house. Tell others how nice she is. Since she is manipulative and ugly, these tactics will confuse her and she will stop in 90 days. Good luck. I used to be a teacher and yes, there are teachers out to get students. How stupid is that? But true.
Reply:Well... we've all been there in some way or another and as much as you might hate this answer it seems to be the truth. I know it hurts to be made fun of and to have someone always being mean to you, but you know you didn't do all that to that boy right? And if you don't have a crush on him, then it shouldn't really bother you. She's probably just acting like that to get a reaction out of you, and it sounds like its working. Just ignore her and ignore her little comments and see if she eventually backs off. It's hard to do i know, but you can't act if there's no audience right?
Reply:look.... talk to the (mean girl) ask her why is she telling lies to people.


and for the guy confront him and say"you know i didnt do it so why are you telling lies.


note to self if you know it's not true then dont stress your self about it.
Reply:oh my goodness you will have so much more to worry about when you grow up. who cares what other people think. ignore it and don't let it get to you. making stuff up is childish.
Reply:i would just play along with it in a sarcastic way! if u just go along with it they will stop because they wont get any fun out of it! also that guy obviously didnt get any valetines cards so he had to make one up! bitty weird!!
Reply:Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do the make her or anyone else quit being mean. You can, however, become a hard target. Ignore her. If she starts a rumor, don't bother with fighting it. Instead, when someone asks you about it, say something like "and you believed her? Interesting." or " I always find it fascinating when some has nothing better in their life to do than take an active interest in my life." Then walk away and let the other figure out how dumb they look spreading rumors. As for your teacher, do the same if necessary. Don't let people run your life simply by talking. You can live above all of that easily.
Reply:When people spread rumours about someone that aren't true, that you did something when you did not do, they want you to REACT and thus your action/reaction will justify that it is true. Such people like to relish the fact that they can make someone else's life miserable.


Don't give them the satisfaction and ignore the *****.


Have you watch the movie "Mean Girls" well... I think it might help. So what if she says.... -- why should you care. Maybe she sent it. but don't tell people that or that will make people think it is true that you did send it.


Find her weakness and work it. Good Luck.
Reply:awww thats cute, are you like in elementary school?





just spread rumors back about that girl


or


talk to her and tell her that what she is doing is wrong and you dont like it.
Reply:ask your mom
Reply:You cant stop her because she hate you. all I can say is to avoid her. Show her that you don't care what she say about you are still strong and Beautiful.





Don't get in any confrontation with her because that is what she want. just keep on avoid. she will stop trust me.
Reply:If it really does bother you, go to the office and ask to speak to the principal or vice principal. They will not get mad at you, they will deal with the problem. Spreading false rumors about people is a form of bullying. But if you really want to stand up to her ... ignore her, and let her know that your better than her and more mature and her gossip about you doesn't affect you.
Reply:confront her and tell her to stop, if she doesn't go to the principal or someone w/ authority. Or just ignore her and realize she's probably just jealous.
Reply:Talk to her, tell her it's so not cool that she's dissing you. Another thing is, that's a type of harassment. talk to councilor, if that doesn't work, tell the guys the truth, then tell the police. It's not tattle-tailing, she wants to be mean to you, you can be mean right back. Good luck!