ATTENTION: Guys over 50 answer only please.?

I'm one of those females , age 52, who likes to pamper her man, such as rub his feet every now and then, massage and scratch his back every now and then, in other words, I'm a female who communicates alot by touch and I want to verbally tell my man at least 3 times a week that I LOVE HIM.Maybe I'm selfish, but I want the same or somewhat same kind of affection returned but maybe in different ways like a single carnation by surprise,candlelit dinner with romantic music,wine.go to Church with me on Sunday mornings. Oh did I mention I love to watch sports on TV with my man as long as he wraps his arms around me every now and then and touches me lightly to acknowledge my presence. My man does this but sometimes I feel it slipping away. Maybe I want to much? We both have a passion for one another but I feel his job is physically working him too much.Can a man get another job if he's 57 years old? He hates his job that he's been with for over 25 years.He's a bobtail delivery milkman. Help?

ATTENTION: Guys over 50 answer only please.?
Belive me, if he really does care for you, no job will take away the ability to show, love are tell you that he loves you anyway that you want to be told...........
Reply:I am almost 56 and am looking for another job. Job stress, and the stress of not having one can lead to a lot of problems, like sexual dysfunction, problems with attention span, mood swings, etc.. I can suggest that if you want more attention from your husband (which you deserve), the two of you should take up a new form of entertainment, together. Get away from the TV, get out of the house and take up something that involves physical activity, like dancing or Tai Chi (my doctor said that Tai Chi is one of the best stress relievers that there are).

If the two of you don't do something to change your current situation and soon, one or both of you are likely to slip into depression. Then your marriage will be headed down the road to ruin.
Reply:He certainly can get another job, experience is what counts in many job situations. Sounds like a lucky guy. Stress can really take it out of a marriage. I think it's the job that's bugging him, not you.
Reply:You sound very reasonable and loving to me. I got a new job at 60 and am very happy.
Reply:nah, wanting the same for others as your self is not others. it is a good thing 2 expect the same as what u give. its balanced. sure, get a another job maybe, i donno there. have to look into it.