I can't live without knowing this!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

I like this boy at my school and hes really cute. I want to ask him out to our school dance the day right after valentines day. in our school, you pay $1 for a carnation that gets sent to the person of your choice. i want to send him one with "anonomous" written on it. But i dont know if i should because he and i are just friends and i dont want to ruin a good friendship if i do anything like that, and he also might ask me if i sent it to him, but i keep saying that we are just friends. i still think that hes cute, and i regret what i say sometimes. hes very cute and i need to know........What would happen if i sent him a carnation and he knew that it was from me? OR. what would happen if i didnt send him a carnation? I dont know what to do and i wish that i did know. please respond, you guys are my only hope! and i dont think i would want to tell him because im way to shy!I also wanted to say , that i really want to send him a carnation, but im way to shy! i can never tell him!he is just a friend who i like, a little. but i want to know. why does he act so weird when he's around me? first he says "hi" to my friend, then he says "hey" to me. thats so weird. Im so confused. i dont know if that means he likes me or not. he and i have been friends ever since 6th grade and now we are in 8th. i dont know what to do or how to act around him anymore. I NEED HELP! I mean i know we are friends and i also know that i never dated anyone ever or even kissed someone but i dont know what signs are when a guys likes me or how to flirt or even talk a mini conversation everyday. i need help.I also want to say that, he is my friend so i dont really wand to ruin a good friendship.

I can't live without knowing this!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
I find this so fascinating!

What you are asking and doing is not unlike what happens to men and women when they are 25, 35, 50, 65 and beyond. The mystery and the excitement of the other sex is so........ahh - exciting!

This is all so new for you. Here's the deal - ask! All he can say is "no" and then he'll know that you are open and willing to communicate. Ok - this is also the hardest thing for guys to do. You just do what you're supposed to do and hope he does what he's supposed to do.

I know 2 years for you is an eternity.

My wife and I dated for 5+ years before we got married.

(I'll tell you a secret - that was 35 years ago) and don't you think that I still get nervous when we have to sit down and talk about stuff.

There's nothing new under the sun.
Reply:Send the carnation but don't add anything like I love you. Simply add your name. This will leave the door to swing either way. If he says thank you but shows no emotional interest, you can tell him he's the best friend you have. If he says Wow, I didn't know you felt that way, you can smile and let him take the lead. Keep in mind that the maturity of boys is about a year to two years behind you. Be patient.
Reply:Send him a carnation. If he asks, smirk and say maybe. Admit nothing. Eventually, he'll come to know it was you. And if he doesn't. Just gradually now and them become more in behavior as though you're dating even when you're not. If he asks say you're joking. Then talk to other girls like he's your guy as sort of a "joke" between you two. You'll see how he reacts to your "joke" to know how he'd react to you really wanting to be with him without putting any feelings on the line. It's the ideal girl thing to do. Responsibility all goes to serendipity, and so it shall be.
Reply:Don't overthink. And no, you won't die. You DO however, have to get over your fear and talk to him and say, look I like you, go to the dance with me? And if he says no, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You are young and there will be plenty more guys to talk to.
Reply:I would think he would appreciate the thought.While in school we did the same thing.I probably would not send him a rose but a carnation.

I would tell him if he asks that you just want to show him how important his friendship ,and all that goes with it, is to you.

or even try

"You are just to wonderful not to get one!"

Leave your first initial on the card ,tell him he is a wonderful Guy and that the the time you have known him has had an impact in who you have become. No brainer for him.If he doesn't get it a peck would not kill a friendship. leave him wondering about your feelings toward him for a change.Subtle touches and fleeting glances work as does demure smiles.

Good Luck
Reply:well your just like me and if it was me i would take a chance its better to have loved and lost then never have loved at all!
Reply:Okay, This is a hard one. Well... Its hard to tell if he likes you or not. Youd have to like describe what he does around you for me to explain if he's hitting on you or not. Lol, well if you realy like him, and you think hes cute just go for it. You say you dont know how to "flirt" Well it kinda comes naturally. First you need an ice breaker and then just do some small talk AKA " Hey, that class was so borring haha" Lol i dunno, What ever you want. And then when he says something follow up with something flirtatious. Its hard for me to tell what to say on that one because im a guy. But i do regonize flirting when its on me. Anyways about the anonamous thing you could do it anonamous, you could do it with your name but if its anonamous it doesn't have TOO much of a point. But it would still probelly make him feel good. I hope i helped!
Reply:Well, how much do you like him? Would you be devastated if another girl asked him, and he went with her?



Take a chance. Life is short.

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