Does he like me, or am I just his backup, or does he like me but not that much?!?

I want to know if he likes me back… here are some things that makes me wonder…

1. Asked me to the dance (slow dance)

2. Grinded with me in the dance

3. Flirts with me in classes and comes and talks to me

4. But some days he doesn’t talk to me...well I hardly see him, I have no classes with him… so the only time I see him is in one class…we talk and laugh, but certain days we don’t.

5. For Valentine’s day we have this thing where you can send carnations and he was gone for 2 days for that week, and so he didn’t really have time to send a carnation, and I sent him one since we were going to the dance together, and since he didn’t get me one he felt so bad and was like so close to crying and felt horrible that he didn’t get me one

6. When we were slow dancing his friends were saying awww sweet

7. Also when we were slow dancing his friend was saying all this stuff to him like remember you said you couldn’t wait for this day and all this stuff and martin (the guy that I like’s name) he blushed and said to my friend to get him away from us

8. But the only thing is that my friend asked him what he thought of me, and he said he doesn’t want a girlfriend right now, and that he didn’t like me THAT much… and one of his best friends told me he like another girl… and he said that he wasn’t lying and looked very serious, but then my friend asked him if that was true and he said no! But then just today I talked to another one of his friends, and he said that the boy doesn’t like anyone… what is going on, what should I do?! Should I just go ahead and ask him out… and there is another dance coming up, should I ask him to that??

I just really want to know if he likes me, I’m not sure if he is shy or not, but I really like him and I really want to know if he likes me…

P.S. were 13, and we aren’t too young, you can fall in love at any age and all of his friends have had girlfriends this year, but him. He has had 2 girlfriends so far, and they are both my friends too, and he didn’t have a bad time with them or anything.

Does he like me, or am I just his backup, or does he like me but not that much?!?
1. That's a great start to a relationship.



2. Grinding is another good sign. (and fun)



3. Well everyone flirts but sometimes it is more than just "flirting."



4. You don't need any classes together to be able to talk to him, talk to him at lunch or something.



5. When you get a guy to the point where he is almost crying, you know you have him lassoed. It's also good that he felt horrible for not getting you one.



6. His friends know if he likes you or not. If they say things like that, then you know he likes you.



7. Self-explanatory, he likes you.



8. Sometimes guys know when someone asks you something like that, that they are coming from you. No guy likes to tell who his crush is to his crushes best friend, it's a dead giveaway. Boy's friends lie a lot.



I don't think you should ask him out, but definitely ask him to the dance. Wait until he asks you out. I had girlfriends when I was 11 so 13 isn't too young. Good Luck, and hope it helps. ;)
Reply:Don't wonder. Ask him.
Reply:thanx 4 the help. i would do wat ur heart tells u. do u seem attracted 2 each other? cause like i said before, he might think that u dont like him cause u wont make the first move. luv 4ever and were not 2 young!